About a month after my father passed away in January of
1977, my mother and brother were having a conversation at
my mothers home when a strange event occurred.
In the right front corner of the living room, resting on the
carpet was a red balloon that had come with some flowers I
had sent my mother for her 48th birthday the week before. The
helium had all but gone out of the balloon over the six or seven
day period. As my mother and brother carried on their
conversation the topic turned to my father and how much my
mother missed him, they had celebrated their 27th wedding
anniversary that past October 29th and losing my father over
the holiday period had proven to be very difficult on all of us.
As they continued to reminisce about my father, all at once the
balloon began to rise off the carpet and bounce up and down
against the living room ceiling. As my brother got up and
started to grab the balloon, my mother told him to "leave it
alone and see what it does". As the two of them looked on the
balloon continued to bounce up and down against the ceiling
for a few more seconds then drifted down about half way
between the ceiling and the floor and began to float down the
hallway toward the rear of the house. The balloon stopped at
the doorway of the family room where my father spent most of
his leisure time reading, watching TV or dozing in his easy
chair.
After bounding around for a minute or so, the balloon floated
through the doorway and into the family room. Still watching
from a distance my mother and brother observed the balloon
eventually drift across the family room to just above my
fathers easy chair, then gently as a feather settling to the
ground, the balloon came to rest on the seat of the chair.
Once the balloon had settled,my brother picked it up and tossed
it up in the air a couple of times and it quickly fell to the
floor as there was no helium remaining in the balloon at all.
My mother felt that the incident was a sign from my father that
he was OK and that he would always be with her. What would
cause a half filled balloon to suddenly rise and travel some
65ft down a hallway and make a "left turn" to another room
only to come to rest on my fathers easy chair. maybe it was
some sort of sign from my father that "he was home".